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Well I like the way these new 'Expressive' layouts put a tags list in the sidebar, so I decided to give it a go. I'm not really sure - I miss my sweetpeas - but now I'm not sure how to go back to them, or whether I can make this narrower and put the sweetpeas back at the side but with this bit up the middle. Or some other pic up the side even. It looks a bit impersonal now. Hmmm.....

Other than that, well I've had this week off work, and I intended to get another 1,000 words or so done of 'Ten Years After 2' - tentatively titled 'Prague Autumn' - and I have managed to find so many other things to do instead, you wouldn't believe it. I have covered shoe boxes in Christmas paper for our annual collection of gifts for Byelorussia, I've made chocolate fudge cake and carrot cake for catering at Church, I've helped out three afternoons with said catering (we run a snack-bar for the motorcycle race meetings held twice a year) - I've even washed every item of clothing Daughter-dear brought back from Leeds Music Festival. But writing? Me? TYA2 is still only about 500 words or so long!

Talking of D-d and the music festival - her and her friends had a really good time - she got suntanned, she got soaking wet, she ate junk food, she saw loads of bands - a good festival. The new rucksack she got as a congratulations present for her A level results was just fine, and her 3 man tent that we bought a couple of years ago proved again to be wind and waterproof - the last night was very wet - and ended with four of them in her tent! Tescos near the site was out of disposable BBQs the day before the Festival started - bad organisation D-d and her friends thought - so they bought a roasting tin, a cooling rack and a bag of charcoal and made their own - very succesfully. D-d bought strawberries on that trip to Tescos, and the rest laughed at her - by Friday/Saturday they were all really grateful to her for sharing them around.

She has now sent off her applications for a place in Hall (Dorms), got her reading lists and forms to choose options for her modules next year, and we have an official letter to say that the I-o-M Government will pay all her tuition costs (God bless them!). It is now looking very real - this leaving home thing!

Date: 01/09/2006 11:38 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] missmurchison.livejournal.com
Um, tags? Special layout? What are thest things?

*continues to ignore anything that will make her LJ experience more complicated*

I'm glad D-d had a good time. Good luck dealing as the day approaches. At least she won't be really far away.

Date: 01/09/2006 11:48 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] curiouswombat.livejournal.com
I thought 'Aha! Having the tags where I can find them when I am trying to find something might actually be a useful change,' - but I'm not sure - this just isn't quite me at the moment.

The trouble with the couple of hundred miles or less between here and York is the forty or fifty so of them that are water! No nipping over for a couple of hours with something that she's forgotten.

Date: 02/09/2006 12:02 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] missmurchison.livejournal.com
How long will it take to get there? You take a ferry, I assume?

When we passed the Illinois college that really wanted my daughter, I kept thinking how wonderful it would be to have her just two hours from home. (Some of those miles are the Mississippi River, but fortunately, there are bridges.)

Date: 02/09/2006 09:57 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] curiouswombat.livejournal.com
The bigger, all-year-round boat takes 3h45m to cross - but allowing for check-in and loading its more like 4h30m. I think it'll then take 2 to 3 hours to drive the rest of the way. When we went in September last year we went on the smaller, faster, but less reliable ferry, and took a train - door to door about 6 - 7 hours as well. But getting through the city that the faster ferry docks in (Liverpool) is a nightmare to me when I have the car -I'd rather go the smaller port (Heysham) and drive a bit further as well!

I don't think we will ever have a bridge - a tunnel would be good, but too expensive for the amount of traffic it would have, so if we want to take our cars, it is still a boat-trip.

Date: 02/09/2006 03:42 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ballena.livejournal.com
I always went to Heysham whenever I took the car to York - not sure which route you take, but I always found a route passing through Blubberhouses that was a nice (motorway-free) drive, do-able in about 2 hours :-)

Good luck with all the preparations! At least with York it's a nice late start so you can get tips from friends who've already had Freshers week!

Date: 02/09/2006 04:56 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] curiouswombat.livejournal.com
I had just looked vaguely at the map and thought 'Should be a fairly nice drive down avoiding motorways,' without looking too closely at the actual route - I will look properly now, and look out for Blubberhouses. Thanks.

Date: 01/09/2006 11:50 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] petzipellepingo.livejournal.com
She has now sent off her applications for a place in Hall (Dorms), got her reading lists and forms to choose options for her modules next year, and we have an official letter to say that the I-o-M Government will pay all her tuition costs (God bless them!). It is now looking very real - this leaving home thing!
Nods. Time for the awfully big adventure.

Date: 02/09/2006 09:59 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] curiouswombat.livejournal.com
Five weeks today she gets her room keys! I'm sure she'll cope - I guess I will.

Date: 02/09/2006 10:43 am (UTC)
gillo: (Joycecoffee by keswindhover)
From: [personal profile] gillo
F goes three weeks tomorrow. ::nibbles nails::

Date: 02/09/2006 12:03 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] going-not-gone.livejournal.com
we have an official letter to say that the I-o-M Government will pay all her tuition costs

Speaking as an American parent, may I just say how freaking jealous I am?

Also wow, and good luck with that whole empty-nest thing, and wow.

Date: 02/09/2006 10:08 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] curiouswombat.livejournal.com
The UK government pay all but £3,000 of their students fees - and the student usually has an official, interest-free, loan to cover that portion, which they pay back once they start earning.

Our government here on our little, fiercly independent, little island have decided to cover this portion as well, so all her tuition fees will be met - aren't they wonderful? Do you have to pay ALL the tuition fees? How much is that?

Date: 02/09/2006 10:45 am (UTC)
gillo: (Default)
From: [personal profile] gillo
I'm jealous. Only England still makes you pay up the three grand. Does she have to get a full student loan for living costs?

Date: 02/09/2006 05:02 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] curiouswombat.livejournal.com
Our kids do have a down-side - they are not eligible for loans through the student loans company, so if they do borrow it has to be via a bank. It's why we are honour bound under our system to make any grant they do get up to that magical figure of £5,850. Which gives problems to ones like one of D-d's friends - her parents earnings mean she would only be entitled to £1,000 or less - but they have told her point blank that any she wants above that she will have to earn, because as she is 18 now they will no longer subsidise her.

Date: 02/09/2006 06:56 pm (UTC)
gillo: (Cathedral)
From: [personal profile] gillo
Ouch. That's harsh. I know it was a real struggle for my parents to make up my grant, because they started paying a mortgage for the first time the April before I went to college and the LEA refused to make any allowance at all for it. I worked all summer and put my savings into teh pot to try to help out, but it was still tough. But it's pretty hard on a kid to abandon her financially at age 18.

Date: 02/09/2006 07:23 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] curiouswombat.livejournal.com
She's got a place at Aberdeen. She has had a part time job here since she was 16, but I don't know that she's got much saved. She's hoping to go, and look for a job there to see her through.

Date: 02/09/2006 12:18 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rachel2205.livejournal.com
Good luck to D-d! I wonder which college she'll be in. I lived in Goodricke and also in Wentworth (as a postgrad), but have known people in all the colleges. They all have their different perks and failings!

Only a few weeks to go until term starts! Can't believe how time has flown.

Date: 02/09/2006 10:02 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] curiouswombat.livejournal.com
You can't really give any preference, so we are waiting to see when it comes to college. She would like one with reasonable cooking facilities as she would prefer to do some of her own cooking - but we will just have to wait and see, I guess. I think you might get an e-mail if she can't make her mind up easily about the modules - she was saying she might need to ask your advice, yesterday.

Date: 08/09/2006 04:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rachel2205.livejournal.com
I haven't seen any emails yet, but I'm quite happy for her to mail any time! :) I am definitely teaching in her dept next term and the term after, so I may see her in a more formal context as well...!

Date: 02/09/2006 06:23 am (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] kazzy-cee.livejournal.com
Wow the IoM govt is paying ALL the tuition! That's amazing - how does that work? It sounds like d-d is so well organised that she's going to be fine at university! I'm sure she'll regularly be in touch.

Date: 02/09/2006 10:19 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] curiouswombat.livejournal.com
We had to fill in forms by the end of July with all her details, and then send them her confirmation of place letter as soon as it arrived - they then pay everything direct to the university in the same way that the LEA in the UK pays whatever bit it still pays for UK students. Our earnings are above the ceiling for her geting any living allowance from the government, so we didn't need to send off copies of our tax returns and things to claim any living allowance, but there is no upper limit for parental earnings on fees - all our teenagers are given the same start.

We still have grants for living expenses as well, rather than loans. One of her friends is getting a full grant of £5,850 per year to live on as well as all her fees paid.

Very altruistic I always think - as a lot of these kids will never come back here to work. Of course we have this reputation for having a very 'conservative' right-wing government....people make their mind up, and never really look at what our government actually do!

Date: 02/09/2006 10:41 am (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] kazzy-cee.livejournal.com
Wow - that's fantastic, and a HUGE encouragement for the students to further their education. I'm not looking forward to my eldest (currently 15 years old) going to uni. He's very keen already - so we've started saving now!

Date: 02/09/2006 10:46 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] curiouswombat.livejournal.com
I started saving towards D-d's living expenses about then as well - we knew she wouldn't get a grant as we are both in reasonably paid jobs. I had my child benefit paid into a savings account and tried not to touch it, and then added a little each month as well - so the up-front lump sums for hall fees can come straight out of that. We are lucky that we only have to think of this for her, rather than planning for more than one.

Date: 02/09/2006 10:47 am (UTC)
gillo: (Cathedral)
From: [personal profile] gillo
It's so depressing - a generation ago it's what all students were entitled to. I would never have gone to Durham in the present climate, I'm sure.

Date: 02/09/2006 07:08 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bojojoti.livejournal.com
*faints* Your government pays for all the tuition costs?! (and what does I-o-M mean?) Sadly, our children will be paying off school loans for the first years of their working careers.

Date: 02/09/2006 10:41 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] curiouswombat.livejournal.com
I-o-M = Isle-of-Man, I-o-M is like your 2 or 3 letter state identifiers.

UK teenagers have to pay £3,000 of their fees via loans, as well as taking out loans for living expenses if their parents can't keep them, but our independent government here on the island believes in giving them all a good start, and pay this money for them.

UK universities get so much money per student, above the £3,000, from UK government to cover the actual cost of their courses. Our Manx students have that portion paid by the Manx government as well - in effect they are classed as overseas students when they attend UK universities.

Most UK students end up £10,000 - £30,000 in debt due to living expense loans and fees loans, during their degree course.

Manx parents are asked to guarantee to ensure that their children have £5,850 per year to live on as part of the agreement to have all their fees covered. Children of parents earning below somewhere in the upper £20,000s will get a grant on a sliding scale towards this - one of D-d's friends whose parents are not in well-paid work is getting the full £5,850 every year from the government. The grant does not need to be repaid.

I have a feeling other students in UK universities may envy the Manx students level of financial aid from our government!

Date: 02/09/2006 10:48 am (UTC)
gillo: (Default)
From: [personal profile] gillo
I don't think I dare tell F about this...

*g*

Date: 03/09/2006 04:35 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bojojoti.livejournal.com
In a perfect world, I think it would be marvelous for every child to be afforded the opportunity to go to university. However, in our great and illustrious land, I'd be afraid we would ruin higher education if it were open to all in the very same way we are destroying our public schools.

I applaud the people of Manx for having the foresight to realize educating their populace is an investment rather than an expense.

Date: 03/09/2006 09:40 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] curiouswombat.livejournal.com
we would ruin higher education if it were open to all

The UK system is never 'open to all' because of the A level gateway - in the case of the Manx government you get that financial aid only if you have proved, by doing the extra 2 years at school after '12th grade' and reaching a certain standard in at least 2 A level subjects, that you are capable of gettng your degree academically.

For almost any UK university courses you must have done those things, or studied at your own expense after leaving school to get the A Levels at night-school, before you are accepted to a degree course. Academic ability must be proved, in effect.

Date: 02/09/2006 12:32 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] spikereader.livejournal.com
these new 'Expressive' layouts put a tags list in the sidebar,

I got a tags list (and page summary) in my existing component layout without doing anything, so the change they've made for the Expressive layouts must have an effect on some of the others too.

Glad D-d enjoyed the festival and that she didn't get soaked or blown away. Love the roasting tin BBQ too - shows great initiative.

It's great that you're getting the tuition costs paid, and I well remember all the pre-uni activity and excitement - I expect my mum had a much different view of it at the time than I did.

Date: 02/09/2006 05:08 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] curiouswombat.livejournal.com
Yes - S2C said one had just turned up on his journal as well - but my old layout didn't gain one, so probably it depended on which one you chose.

I was impressed with the ad hoc cooking facilities as well. ;~)

The tuition fees bit is good isn't it? I wouldn't hqave coped as a student if we had had the current UK system here when I went - I had a full grant and, of course, all fees paid.

Date: 02/09/2006 02:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] frimfram.livejournal.com
They pay all her tuition? That's terrific. Bet you're glad you're not in Newcastle now.

Layout looks lovely, very clean and warm, though if you want the sweetpeas back I'm sure all the layout support communities will be gussying up to deal with this new batch of styles.

Date: 02/09/2006 05:11 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] curiouswombat.livejournal.com
The aim is for it to be possible for them, if not too extravagant, to survive without any debt at the end - although I'm sure some of them will have! Still, so much better for them than the UK system.

Thanks for the nice comments on the layout - I might leave it like this - or go for one with rabbits, or cats, or the Tokyo skyline - perhaps not.

Date: 02/09/2006 08:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ozma914.livejournal.com
Wow -- I'm spinning, dizzy in your wake at all the stuff you got done.

I'm also glad D-d had a good time!

Date: 03/09/2006 12:47 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] curiouswombat.livejournal.com
Giggles. I still have a to-do list, no matter what you ever do, there are always things to do!

Date: 03/09/2006 02:21 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] jerusha
Wow! Things keep moving along! I'm glad to hear that Kat had a good time.

Date: 03/09/2006 12:49 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] curiouswombat.livejournal.com
It's a bit of a right of passage - and something to share when you get to uni - 'I was at Leeds this year - were you? Which festivals have you been to? What bands have you seen?'.

Some of her friends go away next weekend - she has a bit more time to get organised than them - as do I!

Date: 04/09/2006 08:04 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cbtreks.livejournal.com
I rarely, rarely wish I were 18 again (it's much nicer being 43!) but hearing about kids setting off for the first year at college/university does it. I was a tiny bit envious of my oldest niece last year and just the same tiny bit envious of your daughter this year! I hope she has a wonderful time.

Date: 04/09/2006 09:10 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] curiouswombat.livejournal.com
It's a big, big step - but I think she is ready for it. Although over at our support group ([livejournal.com profile] whirlybirds) someone said that, as a generation ofparents who followed that route ourselves, we have an all too clear idea of some of the things they might get up to!

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